I don't know who you are, Jill and Kevin. I don't know any of your friends or family. I don't know where you live, where you work or even how old you are. But I do know that if you two keep this spirit alive, you will have a long and wonderful marriage. Congratulations! Your video made me laugh...until I ended up crying! Why did I spend so much time worrying about seating charts and cake designs! THIS is what I should have been doing! Enjoy folks!